A truth and a confession.
Do you ever catch yourself assuming the worst of people-
not because they've done anything to warrant it-
but because you're afraid that if you put too much trust in them,
they will only end up hurting you?
It's a self-preservation mechanism,
and I find myself reverting to it all too frequently.
What I really want (and moreover, what I truly believe in)
is that you should always assume the best in people.
I hate watching tv shows where the best friend believes an ill-born rumor
over her best friend or even a family member.
I want to yell and ask them to take a step back
and really think about who/what they should be believing.
They shouldn't jump to conclusions just because they want to guard their hearts,
because we all know that the people we love the most
are the people that can hurt us the most,
but they should pause and remind themselves
that, just because we have been let down in the past,
doesn't mean we have the right to expect the worst-
And why would we want to anyways?